Confidence Coaching
WHAT IS YOUR ACTUAL DREAM CAREER?
(It’s not what you think it is!)
Who you are
You’re a woman who has done everything right—you went to college, got your degree, and worked hard… But something’s missing in your life, and that’s true, unshakeable confidence. Sometimes you notice it missing in your career; other times you notice it missing in your relationships.
Whether you’re in your 20s, or your 50s, one thing’s for sure: you know it’s never too late to be yourself… And you’re ready.
What your issues tend to be
You don’t trust yourself, and as a result, you catch yourself constantly seeking outside advice. You believe in pretty much everyone more than you believe in yourself, which is why decisions often feel so heavy for you. But you’re sick and tired of operating out of fear. You’re tired of staying…
silent, yet you just don’t quite know how to speak up and ask for what you want, especially if that means setting boundaries with people. Saying “no” to people feels really difficult, but you’re ready to learn how.
You’re scared of hurting people’s feelings, and constantly worried that you’re too much or not enough. That’s why you’re always replaying events out in your head, evaluating yourself and wondering if you could have done better. Whether you’re new to the workforce or a seasoned professional, you know confidence would do wonders for your career, too. You’re tired of watching other people soar past you, with what looks like an unshakeable sense of confidence… And you’re ready for that amazing woman to be you.
You’re frustrated and overwhelmed, and your biggest battle is actually figuring out what you want and how to get it. You’re tired of just letting life and your career happen to you, and you’ve spent way too many hours daydreaming about jobs or trying to think your way into clarity.
You tell yourself you should be thankful for having a job at all, but deep down you know that you want your life’s work to count—you want it to mean something. All of this creates stress in your life and has taken a toll on your confidence; in fact, this experience makes you wonder whether something is wrong with you. A lot of energy is going out, but the results aren’t exactly what you want them to be, and you know you can’t keep doing the same things anymore because you keep getting the same under-whelming results. If we’re really being honest, you sometimes feel hopeless that you’ll never find your purpose in the workforce, let alone make a decent paycheck. You thought life and adulthood would be more fun than this.
What you may need most right now
You need the support of a masterful facilitator as you take a look at the experiences (and potential traumas) that have influenced your way of being in the world. This means exploring your blocks and limiting beliefs, becoming aware of them, and processing them. Once you explore …
these, it’s time to take a look at who you truly are, and what you truly want for yourself. This means getting support in creating an authentic vision for who you want to be in the world and what goals you want to reach (both personally and professionally), with an action plan to get there.
Part of these goals will be internal wins—you being able to set boundaries, speak up, and feel solid in who you are. Other goals will be external, whether it’s getting that promotion at work, being more authentic in your friendships, or finding the love of your life. This means getting feedback on the HOW to truly show up for yourself, whether that looks like receiving communication tools on how to say “no” when you need to or best practices and mindset strategies to stay connected to who you are. By using these, you’ll be able to take action on your dreams and be authentically you in the world.
the system for you ...
THE UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE FORMULA
Step #1:
Assess The Blocks
Step #2:
Rewrite Your Story
Step #3:
Clarify Your Life Vision
Step #4:
Step Into Your New Identity
Step #5:
Reach For The Stars
Rory Gory
Digital Marketing Manager
The Trevor Project
Los Angeles, CA
Ashley changed my life. Because of her systems, I generated a confidence about that turned into multiple job offers and a better career than what I ever imagined.
Lauren Hutnick
Senior Supply Chain Manager
Honest Company
Los Angeles, CA
My experience of Ashley was transformational. Before finding her, I was so stuck in my own mindset. After finding her, I got the confidence to move to a new city and land a job offer beyond my wildest dreams.
Chanel Bailey
Account Supervisor
Team One
Los Angeles, CA
I was hesitant when I found Ashley, unsure how someone could help me form a kinder relationship with myself… But I am so glad I found her. Before her, I wasn’t confident and I didn’t believe in myself. After working with her, I let go of so much anxiety and negative self talk — it is beyond words. She changed my life, and I do believe my income AND relationships massively improved bc of my work with her.Director
Rory Gory
Shar Rauch
UC San Diego
San Diego, CA
I followed Ashley for years before deciding to work with her… Her free content was really inspiring, and I wanted to know if her direct coaching would help me. To say it did is an understatement… Thank you Ashley for teaching me true, unshakeable confidence and for facilitating me in a way that helped me release my limitations and blocks, and step into true self worth. Our work together translated into a lot more joy in my life, as well as career options and a paycheck I didn’t even think was possible for me.
The Confidence Formuula
AVAILABLE AS AN 1:1 COACHING PACKAGE OR AN ONLINE COURSE
Step
Assess The Blocks
In 1-2 sessions, we’ll explore the experiences that have influenced your belief system—and the ways that they may be keeping you in your smallness. Once we uncover the root of where you started to buy into limitations and misunderstandings about who you are, we can take steps to release it.
Step
Rewrite Your Story
In another 1-2 sessions, your coach will powerfully facilitate you in rewriting the story you hold in your mind. This means undergoing a process of forgiving yourself for the core beliefs that are no longer serving you, and exploring what new stories you’d like to be telling yourself about who you are and what’s possible for you. This new story will be empowered, authentic and inspiring. Your coach will share some mental exercises and tools that you can take with you into your daily life as a way to honor this new mindset you hold for who you are and how you’ll be in the world.
Step
Clarify Your Life Vision
As Einstein says, “you can’t solve problems from the same level of thinking that created them.” And now that our coaching relationship has inspired a new level of thinking for you, it’s important we spend 1-2 sessions coming up with a vision that matches your highest self, both with your inner goals (your confidence, and how you feel about yourself) and your outer goals (your career, relationships and/or finances). The work we do to bring you into alignment is so deep that it is likely to influence your career goals and relationships, which mean coming up with an ideal scene for both of those categories in your life… And an action plan to get there (see step #4!).Step
Step into your new identity
Once you are clear on who you are, you can better align yourself with the people and opportunities that really light your soul on fire. One of the biggest blocks to setting boundaries, saying “no,” or speaking up is in not knowing exactly what to say. That’s why we’ll spend a session on coming up with the exact wording you can use in future communication to actually stand for what’s true to you.
Step
Reach For The Stars
Now that we have tapped into who you truly are and what is possible for you we will lay out and take action on your dream life. The combination of your new mindset, the coaching tools and your communication practice will serve you long after our container together has ended. Which is why it’s time to talk about HOW you’ll take action! Next, we’ll cover exactly strategies for how you’ll reach those big career and life goals you’re setting in the wake of this new empowerment. It’s time to be you, boldly.
Are you ready to have unshakeable confidence?
Click the button below to apply for a private coaching consultation to make sure Ashley's formula is right for you.
Kristi Siemsen
Associate CRM Manager
American Eagle
Pittsburgh, PA
Before finding Ashley, I was so stuck emotionally and career-wise. After working with her, I upgraded my mindset and landed a job offer that was so good for me. You don’t have to sit in your stuckness alone — work with her.
Tiffany Tedesco
Program Manager
Second Forest Food Bank
San Francisco, CA
Working with Ashley was life changing. I came to her at a time of my life when I was so hard on myself, and really unclear on my career path… I left her office more empowered than I ever been, and landed a few job offers that really were game-changers for me. I’ve not been the same since working with her, for the better. She is gifted at what she does. All women need someone like her in their corner.
Kimberly Nanney-Pine
Marketing Director
Rocky Mountain Green Boulder
Longmont, C
Best investment I ever made in myself.
